FACE TO FACE WITH YOUR STALKER
So finally your stalker that you didn’t know you had decides on a little face time. It could be a neighbor, a friend of one of your friends or family member, or maybe even a random stranger. Here are a few things to keep in mind if this ever happens to you.
Stay Calm In The Face Of Your Stalker
Depending on where your stalker has decided to confront you, always remember to keep your cool, as the last thing you want to do is have what could be just a simple hello turn into an assault or better yet a kidnapping because you let your temper get the best of you.
Stand Your Ground
Which ever excuse you start using in an effort to gain space, whether it’s “I’m late for work”, or “My boyfriend is almost home” or whatever, stick to it. Don’t let your stalker’s silver tongue or cool demeanor distract you from what is most important right now which is creating space and exiting the scene as quickly and smoothly as possible.
Check Your Surroundings
If you ever find yourself in a situation where you are being confronted by someone you don’t know or whom makes you feel uncomfortable make sure to check your surroundings. For example, take a mental note of the vehicles, people, or buildings in close proximity. If your lucky you will see your purse laying there with that Lipstick Pepper Spray you bought a few months back for a time just like this one and remember to pick it up.
And last but not least…
Tell A Friend
Assuming you walk away unscathed, always let someone know what happened. No matter how insignificant the encounter appeared, telling someone else what happened is always a great idea. For all you know your stalker may have just been testing the waters to see how close he/she could get to you without causing a scene. And always remember, in order to stop a stalker you must first think like one. So stay alert out there and you will always be safe.
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Posted on July 9, 2012, in Stalker Central and tagged check your surroundings, face to face, kidnapping, lipstick pepper spray, pepper spray, purse, stalker, Stalking, stop a stalker, tell a friend, Tools, walk away unscathed. Bookmark the permalink. 6 Comments.
defendtotheend
Defend To The End 
Thanks for posting my blog.
You are welcome. Wouldn’t have done it if I didn’t think it was a worthwhile read 🙂
I have a question. If you know the system stalking you, then you know you don’t know who the stalker instigating it is. So if you don’t know the start, how can you know what to expect or how to deal with it? Taking pictures and preventive maintenance isn’t how I got mine out. I dove right it and started pressing charges and filing suit everywhere I could to did it out. Had them chase me around the country before I finally learned who it was. If you control a situation, you won’t find the answer. When you find the answer attack and attack hard.
You are talking court. As a target you will probably get denied due process at some point and it may cost more then it’s worth.
Control information and you won’t get any.
In this situation I would say the only way to combat this is to always stay alert and be aware of your surroundings. Most of the time this will keep you safe and out of harms way.
I have been stalked and electrically tortured, denied due process for 8 plus years now. My life threaten so many times, they are nothing but jokes. What is to be aware of? I am already aware of it. That includes the due process denial print.
Now please tell me how this combats it? There has been legislation’s and laws galore on this. Just more versions of the same things I am in federal district that has declared itself they are above the law in their policies an procedures. SO if the court system doesn’t uphold the law, how do you suggest being aware of it combats it?
There is an order that a federal judge put out that says the feds do not have justification over the counties. So defend what to the end and how?
I am doing my part and that is to come. I and I alone can combat my way being privy that none other has.
Opps I forgot. What about what I just wrote keeps me safe? LOL.
Sorry if I seem angry but I get this so much from citizens that still believe in things that simply are not there anymore. The government is the enemy along with the United Nations.
I say execute them all. Then the need to keep safe is eliminated.